About this space

This is a place for honesty.
For the parts of life that don’t come with a plan, a timeline, or a clear explanation.

I’m sharing this chapter of my life in real time—messy, uncertain, and unfinished. I recently stepped away from the path I thought I was supposed to follow, and instead of rushing into the next thing, I’m choosing to pause. To listen. To figure out who I am when I’m not living for everyone else.

Here, I’ll be sharing what it looks like to untangle yourself from expectations. To grieve old versions of yourself. To change your mind. To sit with fear and still move forward. To choose yourself even when it’s uncomfortable or confusing.

This isn’t a space for perfection, quick fixes, or “having it all figured out.” It’s a space for:

  • learning how to trust yourself again
  • navigating identity shifts and big life changes
  • healing your relationship with control, pressure, and people-pleasing
  • talking honestly about mental health, recovery, and starting over
  • finding meaning in the in-between moments

Some days I’ll feel hopeful. Some days I’ll feel lost. Both belong here.

I don’t have answers, advice, or a blueprint for how this all turns out. What I do have is a willingness to be honest, to show up as I am, and to let this journey unfold without pretending I’m okay when I’m not.

If you’re here because you feel stuck, burnt out, afraid to change, or unsure of who you are becoming—you’re not alone. And you don’t have to rush your healing, your decisions, or your life.

This is me choosing myself.
And maybe, in sharing it, you’ll feel a little more permission to choose yourself too.

Welcome to the in-between.